我的媳妇我宠着我的爷们我惯着
[wŏ de xí fù wŏ chŏng zhe wŏ de yé men wŏ guàn zhe]
I Spoil My Wife and Habituate My Buddy conveys that a husband or wife is very kind-hearted and willing to give others as much help as possible. In fact, this kind of behavior may spoil other members instead of building a harmonious and equal relationship with them.