我的南辕北辙你的左顾右盼
[wŏ de nán yuán bĕi zhé nĭ de zuŏ gù yòu pàn]
A poetic phrase combining two idioms: “go south but drive north” meaning actions contradictory to one’s goals, and “look around frequently,” referring to indecision or wandering aimlessly. It describes how different our paths might be from each other's.