我不讨喜但我会讨好你
[wŏ bù tăo xĭ dàn wŏ huì tăo hăo nĭ]
A seemingly contradictory statement saying 'I am not lovable, yet I will treat you nicely.' The underlying message here highlights an individual's awareness of his shortcomings or flaws coupled with a genuine desire to win favor or make amends specifically towards someone he cares deeply about.