我不是白娘子你不是许仙
[wŏ bù shì bái niáng zi nĭ bù shì xŭ xiān]
A reference to a classic Chinese folklore story about Bai Suzhen and Xu Xian, legendary lovers known for their devoted yet ill-fated relationship. This indicates that two individuals don’t consider themselves star-crossed like those characters from Chinese mythology. It conveys both partners understand the relationship may not reach such mythical heights or tragedies.