温柔你媳妇霸气你男人
[wēn róu nĭ xí fù bà qì nĭ nán rén]
Suggests that a partner can present two contrasting characteristics. Soft-hearted toward his or her spouse (show kindness and affection) while showing off masculinity or dominance outside, like protecting and supporting others. In a broader context, also refers to different personality sides.