围城
[wéi chéng]
'Wei Cheng' refers to being besieged inside city walls, which alludes to an excerpt of famous writer Qian Zhongshu's novel Fortress Besieged. It describes a paradoxical state in which everyone envies those outside while insiders dream escaping from within, usually referring to marriages. Adopting this online handle hints that person recognizes complex interpersonal connections in society as well as inevitable compromises we have face during daily routines or love stories unfolding around.