忘了他你还是自己
        
            [wàng le tā nĭ hái shì zì jĭ]
        
        
            'Forget about him, and you'll remain yourself,' is what this nickname means. A gentle yet heart-touching statement showing someone who encourages herself or himself after an emotional parting; it means one should try to live their life fully rather than staying stuck in past regrets.