忘记自己不如忘了你
[wàng jì zì jĭ bù rú wàng le nĭ]
Translating to 'Forget myself or forget you,' the name 'Wang Ji Zi Ji Bu Ru Wang Le Ni' conveys a sentiment of choosing to distance oneself emotionally rather than being preoccupied with someone who causes pain or sorrow in one's life.