万箭穿心你疼吗
[wàn jiàn chuān xīn nĭ téng ma]
The heart-piercing pain of being 'shot by thousands of arrows', asking 'Are you hurt?' reflects suffering caused either by emotional damage or the hope that the other party feels as distressed as oneself after breaking up or betrayal by loved ones, wishing someone understand your agony or expect them sharing the same sufferings.