外貌拿来让别人认得你内在拿来让别人记得你
[wài mào ná lái ràng bié rén rèn dé nĭ nèi zài ná lái ràng bié rén jì dé nĭ]
'The appearance is there for others to recognize you, while character leaves a lasting impression'. Distinguishes outward appearance from true essence or inner character, stressing that personality traits are more memorable than physical attributes in lasting connections.