痛不是在你身上何来感同身
[tòng bù shì zài nĭ shēn shàng hé lái găn tóng shēn]
Literal translation: if the pain is not on you, how can you empathize? Reflecting dissatisfaction with lack of empathy or understanding of one’s true feelings, which can be related to a situation where someone complains about another person who does not understand their struggles.