掏心掏肺活的好累没心没肺生活不累
[tāo xīn tāo fèi huó de hăo lĕi méi xīn méi fèi shēng huó bù lĕi]
Translated as 'Giving everything is exhausting, living carefree is less tiring.' This reflects on the emotional burden of being fully committed versus staying indifferent to ease one’s life burden.