谈何拥抱
[tán hé yōng bào]
'Tan He Yongbao' means 'How Can We Talk About Embraces?' It seems like this person is referring to a kind of reluctance towards getting close emotionally or even physically. Perhaps they feel unready or unwilling to receive/deliver hugs due to past negative experiences or personal boundaries they set. However, talking about hugging could also symbolically mean sharing heartfelt connections or accepting love from another individual.