所谓良人不过凉人所谓爱人不过碍人
[suŏ wèi liáng rén bù guò liáng rén suŏ wèi ài rén bù guò ài rén]
Sarcastic reflection on relationships suggesting that so-called kind people ('liang ren') might actually be emotionally cold toward oneself ('liang ren'), and those supposed loving others might end up being obstructive or problematic ones ('ai ren').