说者无心听着有心
[shuō zhĕ wú xīn tīng zhe yŏu xīn]
'说者无心听着有心' translates to 'The Speaker Talks Casual but the Listener Takes It Seriously'. This expresses a situation where words are taken much more seriously by the listener than they were intended by the speaker, indicating miscommunication or deep feelings of someone involved in such scenarios.