淑女淑女变输女
[shū nǚ shū nǚ biàn shū nǚ]
'Elegant lady turns into a losing girl': This play on words contrasts an idealized perception of femininity with a less positive reality; essentially it means 'too proper and loses out'. It humorously implies a stereotype where someone who overly adheres to social norms can end up being the 'loser'.