失他我命得她我幸
[shī tā wŏ mìng dé tā wŏ xìng]
'Shītā wǒ mìng, dé tā wǒ xìng' means to lose him is my fate, to gain her is my blessing, revealing a significant contrast between two opposite outcomes. On one hand losing a loved one is presented as a destined tragedy; while receiving love reciprocally becomes an incredible fortune. It represents two critical events of falling in and out of love shaping life experience.