失去等于投去绝情
        
            [shī qù dĕng yú tóu qù jué qíng]
        
        
            Means 'loss equals abandonment'. Expresses a harsh reality that when losing something irreplaceable, such as parting from a beloved one or a lost object of importance, it symbolises giving up or being left with no choice but turning away without emotion in a last-ditch attempt of acceptance.