是否溺死心海好过苦苦纠缠
[shì fŏu nì sĭ xīn hăi hăo guò kŭ kŭ jiū chán]
'Drowning in the Sea of Heart or Struggling Hopelessly' conveys a feeling of being emotionally overwhelmed by intense feelings or memories. It expresses a conflict between giving up on something deeply felt and struggling against it.