谁给你做的嫁衣谁给你做的袈裟
[shéi jĭ nĭ zuò de jià yī shéi jĭ nĭ zuò de jiā shā]
Presents a dichotomy between marital bliss (represented by the wedding dress) and spiritual renunciation or freedom from worldly ties (monk's robe), questioning what choices led to these contrasting outcomes in life and who influenced these significant decisions.