少女柔情攻猛男傲娇受
[shăo nǚ róu qíng gōng mĕng nán ào jiāo shòu]
A term popular in BL (boys' love) fan fiction describing romantic dynamics where 'the soft-hearted girl-like character takes the lead while the tough-guy character, despite his aloofness or arrogance, willingly becomes affectionate'. This captures relationship roles often dramatized in literature and media.