伤心是我自找
[shāng xīn shì wŏ zì zhăo]
'Sorrow Was Self-Invited' indicates self-imposed grief, meaning an individual knowingly made decisions that might hurt them emotionally. Such users may believe they deserve this feeling for some past mistakes or choices. In a broader perspective, it signifies taking full responsibility for one's unhappiness, rather than attributing blame to external factors.