若即若离的小偏执
[ruò jí ruò lí de xiăo piān zhí]
'Intimate yet Distant, with a Quirk' implies a complicated attitude towards something or someone that contains both fondness/attachment and certain reservations/unapproachability at the same time. Such a character is often seen by themselves as unique or even somewhat whimsical while may appear unfathomable and slightly obsessive in others' eyes.