热恋的时候你怎么不说分手的时候你怎么不爱
[rè liàn de shí hòu nĭ zĕn me bù shuō fēn shŏu de shí hòu nĭ zĕn me bù ài]
This name expresses the regret and confusion a person feels after a breakup. When in love, it's hard to imagine splitting up; after a breakup, it's bewildering why there's no affection left.