请问你为何放弃治疗因为医生不是你啊
[qĭng wèn nĭ wéi hé fàng qì zhì liáo yīn wéi yī shēng bù shì nĭ a]
'Why did you choose to abandon treatment because the doctor wasn't you?' A rather poetic and slightly melancholic phrase questioning a lover's decision, implying dissatisfaction or sadness about a choice someone has made regarding medical care or more broadly, life decisions, where they might wish the loved one was there for them in an essential way.