情若能自控怎么会心痛
[qíng ruò néng zì kòng zĕn me huì xīn tòng]
This phrase '情若能自控怎么会心痛' suggests if emotions could be self-controlled, how could one possibly feel heartbroken? It conveys an expression regarding emotional pain and loss that come with uncontrollable feelings. It describes situations where intense feelings lead to suffering and anguish beyond one's power over them.