情若能自控我要心有何用
[qíng ruò néng zì kòng wŏ yào xīn yŏu hé yòng]
'If emotions can be controlled, what do I need a heart for.' A somewhat extreme and romanticist nickname, expressing the idea of not being able to control oneself because of powerful feelings which come from the bottom of one's heart, indicating passion, deep infatuation, or perhaps frustration and powerlessness toward certain overwhelming emotional reactions.