弃我拥他
[qì wŏ yōng tā]
'Abandon me for another.' Describes betrayal and disappointment experienced when loved ones forsake old companions for new partners or pursuits - embodying pain resulting from being cast aside. Through adopting such names, users wish to express their distress over abandonment by those closest to them while venturing forward alone or having to come to terms with the fact that significant others now choose different people/things.