其实你没有那么爱他真的不需要那么想他
[qí shí nĭ méi yŏu nèi me ài tā zhēn de bù xū yào nèi me xiăng tā]
'In fact, you don't love him so much that you really need to miss him like this,' suggests a moment of clarity or advice that one shouldn’t dwell overly on missing someone when the level of love isn't as deep as thought, emphasizing emotional moderation.