女人听说你狠拽嘛男人听说你狠叼嘛
[nǚ rén tīng shuō nĭ hĕn zhuài ma nán rén tīng shuō nĭ hĕn diāo ma]
Uses slang expressions implying the evaluation of one's style and charm from others. For females, 'hen zhuai' suggests very attractive or cool; for males, 'hen diao' may indicate they're considered awesome in attitude, style, etc., both showing self-confidence and appeal.