女人不狠不女人男人不毒不男人
[nǚ rén bù hĕn bù nǚ rén nán rén bù dú bù nán rén]
This nickname expresses the view that one needs to be 'fierce' and not hesitant; a somewhat aggressive way of saying that one should be bold and decisive. It reflects traditional beliefs about assertiveness and toughness in men and women.