你总说我多想了来敷衍我
[nĭ zŏng shuō wŏ duō xiăng le lái fū yăn wŏ]
It means the person frequently says 'you are overthinking it' as a way of evasion or avoiding real communication issues. This reflects the speaker's frustration in relationships or communication with others, implying that they feel their concerns or emotions aren't being acknowledged properly.