你以什么姿态看我失败
[nĭ yĭ shén me zī tài kàn wŏ shī bài]
'你以什么姿态看我失败' means 'What attitude do you have when you watch my failure?' This can express either vulnerability or defensiveness, as it invites introspection into how others perceive and react to one's failures. It highlights the importance of emotional support during tough times.