你说懂了爱不是浪漫我的本分给你安全感
[nĭ shuō dŏng le ài bù shì làng màn wŏ de bĕn fēn jĭ nĭ ān quán găn]
The user here expresses a mature understanding of love - the essence of love does not lie in the romantic moments and the pursuit of passion, but in fulfilling the responsibility as partners and offering the other party a sense of security.