你累我不累吗
[nĭ lĕi wŏ bù lĕi ma]
'Ni Lei Wo Bu Lei Ma' literally means 'Are you tired? Am I not tired?' indicating mutual recognition or sharing feelings of fatigue, stress, or exhaustion between two people, reflecting the empathy felt for each other through a common situation, challenge, or phase they're going through together or comparing similar conditions or experiences with another individual.