你不懂我我不怪你自找的痛何必喊疼
[nĭ bù dŏng wŏ wŏ bù guài nĭ zì zhăo de tòng hé bì hăn téng]
The nickname expresses feeling misunderstood yet unwilling to take blame, while saying it is not necessary to cry out pain when encountering problems. It reveals feelings of inner turmoil but also a degree of resilience.