难相拥妄拥友
[nán xiāng yōng wàng yōng yŏu]
'Nan XiangYong Wang Yong You' can roughly mean 'Finding It Hard to Have A Genuine Embrace So Just Tightly Hold Friends.' This net name has an undertone of self-mockery and melancholy where one wishes for an authentic deep relationship but finds it tough to attain. So instead, he or she turns towards friendship for consolation, reflecting the gap between idealized love and reality in relationships.