拿稳我心你称王弃我者是瞎眼者
[ná wĕn wŏ xīn nĭ chēng wáng qì wŏ zhĕ shì xiā yăn zhĕ]
This conveys possession over another’s affection in a powerful and slightly threatening manner. Winning over the heart means becoming king but neglectful ones are deemed blind, reflecting intense emotional investment and desire for loyalty.