没人惯我我惯着你
[méi rén guàn wŏ wŏ guàn zhe nĭ]
'When nobody spoils me, I'd pamper you'. There is a sense of compensation in caring for another despite not receiving similar care in return. With this handle, one likely emphasizes their own capability to protect and give priority unilaterally rather than seeking any reciprocating action in exchange, suggesting a sacrificial side and strong willingness to give and cherish more within a personal connection.