冷言冷语冷温柔假言假语假温柔
[lĕng yán lĕng yŭ lĕng wēn róu jiă yán jiă yŭ jiă wēn róu]
'Cold words, cold language, cold tenderness; false words, false language, false tenderness' captures layers of contradictions between appearance (coldness/falsehood) and reality (warmth/authenticity). It highlights complexity in communication and feelings.