可以做公主靠男人可以做女王靠自己
[kĕ yĭ zuò gōng zhŭ kào nán rén kĕ yĭ zuò nǚ wáng kào zì jĭ]
'Be a princess by depending on men or be a queen relying on yourself' implies the belief that while one can live comfortably supported by others, becoming independent makes you stronger. It represents an aspiration for personal power and freedom over mere indulgence in dependency on men for support and status.