久随与他久伴与她
[jiŭ suí yŭ tā jiŭ bàn yŭ tā]
'Long following him long staying with her' suggests having lasting relationships both male friends as well as close bonds between women possibly even more romantically inclined interpretations such as loving men through companionship then eventually falling into a deeper intimate relationship with another woman, but also applicable to describe enduring friendships transcending gender boundaries.