酒不醉人人自醉情不迷人人自迷
[jiŭ bù zuì rén rén zì zuì qíng bù mí rén rén zì mí]
Wine doesn't get a person drunk if they are sober-minded, but people can intoxicate themselves; love doesn’t confuse a person when they’re not lost, but one can lose oneself within their own passions – speaks of getting carried away or indulged by personal emotions without needing an external trigger like alcohol.