姐不是附庸品
[jiĕ bù shì fù yōng pĭn]
Jie Bushi Fayongpin: I'm (Sister) Not An Accessory. In contemporary Chinese culture, sisters ('jie') usually imply mature, assertive and self-respected females. The owner of this nickname may want to highlight her independence, confidence and non-utilitarian attitude toward interpersonal relations, stressing she isn't just decoration, rather she is a unique individual worthy of respect on her own terms.