会深拥就别推开会推开就别深拥
[huì shēn yōng jiù bié tuī kāi huì tuī kāi jiù bié shēn yōng]
This proverbial phrase means 'if you can hold me closely, don't push me away; if you will push me away, don't embrace me deeply'. It implies the frustration of receiving conflicting signals in a relationship.