好姑娘媚而不骚好小伙帅而不傲
[hăo gū niáng mèi ér bù sāo hăo xiăo huŏ shuài ér bù ào]
A traditional value judgment, suggesting desirable qualities for young people: girls who are charming but modest; boys who are handsome without arrogance. This reflects cultural admiration for attractive qualities balanced by humility and grace in behavior.