姑娘可不可以不要那么犯贱
        
            [gū niáng kĕ bù kĕ yĭ bù yào nèi me fàn jiàn]
        
        
            'Can the Girl Stop Being Reckless/Foolish?' seems directed at oneself or another. If aimed at self, it implies wishing not to act immature or impetuously any longer. If referring to someone else, there's criticism or advice.