孤独成瘾心软成患
        
            [gū dú chéng yĭn xīn ruăn chéng huàn]
        
        
            'Addicted to loneliness, kindhearted to be a flaw', indicating the bearer feels they are addicted to loneliness and have become excessively soft-hearted over time. Both traits are seen as negative effects on the individual.