孤独比拥抱实在失去比拥有踏实
[gū dú bĭ yōng bào shí zài shī qù bĭ yōng yŏu tà shí]
'Loneliness is more substantial than hugs; losing feels firmer than possessing' expresses deep inner feelings, indicating one might find it easier to deal with loneliness and loss rather than the pressures of close relationships and gains.