哥要的不是帅气而是霸气姐要的不是美丽而是勇气
[gē yào de bù shì shuài qì ér shì bà qì jiĕ yào de bù shì mĕi lì ér shì yŏng qì]
This nickname expresses the desire of the male user to be not just handsome but exude power and authority, while the female user desires inner strength over physical beauty. It conveys their longing for traits that they believe define true masculinity and femininity beyond mere appearances.